Wise Man’s words burst into a circle of friends: those social hidden rules that you don’t know…
Recently, Wise Man’s speech on “Life Planning” has exploded the entire circle of friends.
What he said inside: “What age do you want to do?” has benefited many people.
1, hard work does not necessarily have a good time, but no effort will never have a good time
In the video, Wise Man’s said: Before the age of 20, try to be a good student.
For us before the age of 20, learning is the top priority in life. You can’t learn well, but it doesn’t mean you can learn without it.
Studying hard will not necessarily have a good future, but if you don’t study, you will not have a good future.
Wise Man’s, who attended the two-year high school entrance examination , barely admitted to a local high school.
Later, I took the college entrance examination and continued to drop for two years. Finally, because the family was too poor, I only studied while working, and I was admitted to the university in the third year.
As long as we do our best for everything, then after many years, there will be no regrets for countless times:
If I can work hard when I go to school, will it be better now?
2. Learn to choose and persist , and win the initiative in life.
Before the age of 30, you have to follow someone and go to a smaller company.
Working in a large company is a good learning process for us, just like the small parts of a large machine.
But if you are in a small company, you can learn more. For example, enthusiasm, dreams and struggles .
These three words seem to be nothing, but in reality they determine the success or failure of a person in this life.
Some people, when they step into the society, are “dead”. Every day, they have nothing to do with nine to five. If you brush your circle of friends, you can get off work.
Some people have been fighting for the rest of their lives.
In a small startup, it will be very tired and hard, but you will learn how to accomplish a lot of things in a short period of time, and learn how to use your strength to do the best.
So before the age of 30, what is important is not which company you go to. What is important is which boss you follow.
Because, a good boss will teach you something different, and those experiences are hard to change.
A thousand miles of horses can’t meet Bole in their lifetime, and they are no different from ordinary horses.
When students from world-famous colleges and universities asked Wise Man: What kind of academic requirements does your company have for recruiting people?
W. Man’s reply is: “No, no!! If our company has any requirements for academic qualifications, then W. Man has long been rejected by Alibaba.”
When he talked about Alibaba’s start-up team, there were a total of 18 start-ups who even graduated from a very bad school.
Therefore, nothing in life is certain, and there is nothing that must not be.
He also emphasized that the alarm bells have aroused many self-righteous people:
“If you graduate from a prestigious school, please also respect the students from the poorer schools; but if you graduate from a poor school, learn to respect yourself.”
People live in the world, don’t go out of their way, don’t be too high, don’t look down on anyone.
Because, as long as you work hard, everyone will have a chance.
3. Examining and understanding yourself is the key to success in life.
When you are over 30, you have to think hard about whether you are working for yourself.
Not to cope with and perfuse anyone, and no longer stalking like a headless fly. At this age, you should find your own goals and work hard to do better.
Many new ideas that can’t be abandoned should also be abandoned. When you get married, the responsibility on your shoulders is heavier and you need to think more.
What you have to think about is: Are you doing what you are best at?
It is not easy for a person to be sufficiently precise and professional in a certain field of work.
Many people have changed a lot of jobs in this life, and they have turned a lot of different fields. In the end, there is no place where he is really good at it.
Because I know that I can be replaced at any time, I will be uneasy.
In the work, the real strength is that there is the ability to dare to change jobs at any time.
Because you know, as long as you do what you are good at, you are not afraid to find a job. When you have this confidence, you will be firmly based on society.
4, life is your own, don’t let anyone disrupt your rhythm
W. Man once said: Do not tell your child, to become Wise Man second.
And tell him that you want to live healthy and happy. Doing what you want to do is like happiness. This is happiness.
Gradually, you will find that the most important thing in life is that life needs one step at a time, and don’t let anyone disrupt your rhythm.
Everyone is born differently. So there is no real template for our life.
Some people know what they want when they are 16 years old, but they change their minds at the age of 26;
Some people admitted to the teacher, but did not want to end this, resigned and started a business;
Some people have children, but they become single;
Some people are married but have no children at all;
Some people are unmarried for the rest of their lives, but they have lived out of themselves;
Some people are in a relationship, but others are others;
Some people clearly love each other, but they still can’t be together.
But everyone has their own time and rhythm. Maybe someone around you is far ahead of you, or you are behind you, but they all have their own rhythm.
After Wise Man was rejected by the 35-year-old innumerable times, he founded Alibaba. After being dismissed from the school at the age of 28, Y.H had the current career after several twists and turns;
It’s like someone who is 30 years old and still not married, but who is very happy. It’s a kind of luck and success for those who are married but not happy in their 20s.
Some people only find a job when they are 27 years old, they only get married at the age of 35, and they buy a house when they are 40 years old… This is not a shameful thing, and it should not be a reason for your pain and decadence.
Einstein once said: “Not every thing that is calculated makes sense. It is not something that makes sense. It can be calculated.”
There are endless possibilities in our lives, so don’t set limits for yourself, don’t let anyone lead your life and disrupt your rhythm.
Compared to confusing, it is better to learn to face yourself than to follow the tide. Instead of thinking about what you want to do, what kind of life you want to live.
Then from now on, step by step, go and get what you want, live the life you want, and let those who have laughed at us shut up.
Life is your own. Not eager, not arrogant. The rest of my life is long, I have to panic.